Is there any way I can find out everyone who my contacts have on MSN without hacking thier account?

Okay so there's this guy........I really want him on msn address! I can't ask him in person because I just started being homeschooled and he goes to my old school. I know some people on my msn list have him on thiers but I can't ask them for it. Why? Because thier mad at me. Don't ask why, I don't think they can even answer that. So they would just lie about knowing his address. So do you know if there's a way to find out who they have on thier contact list? Or even a different way to find a certan persons email? Thanks!! :D

there is an option in msn messenger to search for contacts by name. if as you believe this guy has an active msn username then this should enable you to request an add to their contact list.
due to privacy etc you will not be able to see their online status and such things unless they agree to share this information via a pop up message which they will receive at next log-on

if after you request this they do not get back to you then i think they are being pretty clear that they do not wish to chat with you.
hope it all works out