Complicated - has she blocked me on msn?

ok, sorry if you get lost in the story:

i added a friend on msn & then blocked & deleted her.
Months later, ive gone on options, privacy & unblocked her

but she doesnt appear on my msn cause i havnt added her but my mates say shes online.

but how do i know if shes blocked/deleted me without asking her? please help x

thanks x

because i deleted him shes not on my contacts but i dont want to add her again incase she has blocked me x

Actually, that aMSN trick doesnt quite work the way you say... the red cross only appears if the person has deleted you, not blocked you. If the person has blocked you then they will simply not show up on your online contacts.

As for that block checker that was posted, ignore it.. for something like that to work you will need to state your email address and the target's email address. Not only this but that site looks rather dodgy and is very likely to be packed full of malware.

there is a nice 3rd party program that is called aMSN
its very similar to msn messenger but it has a few different qualities to it. you can see if people blocked you cause they will have a red x next to their little msn guy

http://blockchecker.msnfanatic.com/

The only possible way that you can tell if someone's blocked you would be to either ask them, or make a new address, don't tell them it's you, and see if they accept you.

Block checkers DON'T WORK, whatsoever, no matter how many links to them people repeatedly post on here :P

then she should apper as offline for a while. add me kayleetiara9@hotmail.com